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Is it okay to cheat with my ex-husband who is married to the home wrecker who broke up the marriage? We have 3 kids, and he wants to come back.
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If all three of my languages are about tangible evidence, how do I ask for more of that from someone without it sounding like I am accusing them of not doing enough?
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How do I tell someone early on that Quality Time, Acts of Service, and Receiving Gifts are all how I feel loved, without it sounding like I have a checklist they need to pass?
What should I do if someone I am with does not naturally think to give gifts and it keeps leaving me feeling unseen?More follow-up questions
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Acts of Service and Receiving Gifts are both mine. How do I stay open to someone whose way of loving is mostly words, when words tend to feel like the beginning of something rather than the thing itself?
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My love score is a ten — am I leaning on that relationship to carry weight that used to be shared across a wider circle?
A love score of ten is a gift, and it is also worth asking whether it has quietly become a load-bearing wall that was never designed to hold everything. When one area of your life scores significantly higher than the others, it tends to mean one of two things: either that relationship genuinely is extraordinary, or that it has become the place where you deposit everything the other areas are not providing, belonging, meaning, safety, identity. Both can produce the same number on a self-assessment. The honest question is not whether the relationship is good. It is whe
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