Who is Ahmed Nur Said Elmi?

Ahmed Nur Said Elmi is the British citizen who was Representative Ilhan Omar's second husband, married to her from 2009 until their legal divorce in 2017, and who has been the center of a long-running, unproven allegation that he is her brother.

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Quick facts

  • Nationality: British citizen
  • Relationship to Ilhan Omar: Second husband (married 2009, legally divorced 2017)
  • Current whereabouts: Reported to be in Johannesburg, South Africa

The marriage

Public records show that Omar legally married Elmi in February 2009, identifying him as a British citizen. Omar says she and Elmi divorced in their faith tradition in 2011 and he moved back to England, though the legal divorce was not finalized until 2017.

Omar maintained her religious union with her long-term partner Ahmed Abdisalan Hirsi during this period and continued to have children with him. She later legally married Isra Hirsi in 2018, and Tim Mynett in 2020.

The controversy

Questions about Omar's marital history have lingered, including whether she once married Elmi to skirt immigration laws. Omar has denied the allegations, dismissing them as "baseless rumors" first raised in an online Somali Army politics forum and championed by conservative bloggers during her 2016 campaign for the Minnesota House.

Omar stated plainly:

"Insinuations that Ahmed Nur Said Elmi is my brother are absurd and offensive."

The claim that Omar married her brother for immigration fraud originated in 2016 and remains unproven. Fact-checks from PolitiFact, Snopes and others found no conclusive evidence, relying only on circumstantial social media posts and records. No official proceedings or new proof have emerged.

Snopes found no public records or credible sources contradicting Omar's account, nor any substantive evidence that Elmi is her brother or that the marriage was otherwise fraudulent. Separately, Elmi's refugee resettlement documents, which Omar shared with reporters, did not list anyone by his name among her siblings.

Where he is now

Elmi, 40, who spent time abroad after leaving the United States, is now believed to be in Johannesburg, where he has been chronicling his life there on social media. His reappearance online coincided with President Donald Trump renewing the immigration allegations against Omar, claims that remain unsubstantiated.

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Representative Ilhan Omar, 44, born October 4, 1982, in Mogadishu, Somalia, is the Democratic congresswoman for Minnesota's 5th District, serving since January 3, 2019. A former refugee, she is the first Somali American in Congress and one of the first 2 Muslim women ever elected to it. On October 12, 2026, federal agents searched her Washington home in what the Justice Department called an ongoing criminal investigation; she has not been charged.

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